Why Silence Feels Safer Than Healing and What It’s Costing You

A free masterclass for Christian women who had an affair and are tired of carrying shame alone.

The Cost of Silence is a free masterclass for Christian women who had an affair and are exhausted from managing their healing quietly. If you’ve done the “right things” (therapy, repentance, prayer, accountability) and still feel the ache, the longing, or the fear that letting go of shame means excusing what happened, then this training will help you understand why you’re still stuck.

Not because you’re broken. Not because you’re resisting God. But because shame thrives in silence. And no one taught you how to heal desire, grief, and self-trust without punishing yourself in the process. 

This is not marriage advice. It’s not behavior control. And it’s not pressure to make a decision about your relationship. This masterclass names what most women are afraid to say out loud: silence can feel safer than honesty, especially after an affair. But it quietly costs you joy, clarity, peace, and connection with God.

Inside, you’ll learn why healing doesn’t require perfect boundaries, complete certainty, or having everything figured out, and why beginning now is what actually makes those things possible. If you’re ready to stop managing your heart in silence and start healing it with dignity, truth, and compassion, you are welcome here.

Monday, February 23, 8:30 pm EST